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Waking up tired - Not your T*oken

Musings, reviews, news, and writings from a complex web of centers and margins

Final day of #TransLoveNov - Self-care, self-love

11/30/2016

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Perhaps it's become a cliche to bring in Audre Lorde's epic quote on self-care, but this is one cliche that cannot be oversstated: "Caring for myself is not self-indulgence, it is self-preservation, and that is an act of political warfare." As trans and gender nonconforming people, especially TGNC folks of color, our bodies and our selves are often in the crosshairs of political warfare. Countless times, we have been used as wedge issues in elections, as tokens that are patronized only when our presence makes cis people and institutions look good, and as the bodies which cishet men violate and take out their insecurities and internalized hatred on. So caring for ourselves and loving ourselves is radical. Our existence is radical. Our healing is radical. Loving each other is radical. So I choose to work on loving and caring for myself better, so I can love and care for my trans and gender nonconforming siblings better.

With love and in solidarity
#TransLoveNov

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About that asterisk: This website uses the asterisk (*) as a linguistic disruption of sorts that shifts the meaning of words to intentionally reference from a trans perspective (e.g., trans*form). In most cases, it is not used after the word "trans" as is becoming common in many spaces (see this article for an explanation of the etymology and meaning of trans*), except when directly cited or is part of an already published piece.  This is to honor the ongoing discussions and tensions amongst trans communities regarding the use/misuse of the asterisk. See, the following three articles to learn about some of these discussions and tensions: by Julia Serano, by the Trans Student Educational Resources, and by Practical Androgyny.
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